The winds of change
I had to speak to the most recent ex the other day about an insurance matter. It's never pleasant and there's no nice way to say to someone that you suspect they've not been honest with you. I've heard so many stories about the situation I found myself in that I was never sure which one was correct.
However, to get myself out of it, I need to do it in writing, through my employer, and evidently have some kind of paperwork to back it up. I work for the Federal Government. They have rules.
I asked for some cooperation and the truth. What I got was the cooperation. It was wedged in to a whole bunch of name calling. But it was there and, sadly, what I expected. What I thought would be appropriate would be just a simple thank you for helping out. Instead, I got the internet version of being screamed at for helping out. I thought not having to pay a rather large hospital bill because my insurance was going to pick up the tab was a good thing.
My insurance company hasn't been paying my claims since May. I needed to provide them some information and I needed that information from the ex. I told her that and asked for it in March and/or April. I also told her they wouldn't pay claims until she gave it to me and I called them. I had to get her off my insurance policy because of the divorce so I took care of both things. Sometimes being stubborn gets to be counter-productive. But in getting yelled at, I got yelled at for that, too.
I was left wondering who she was mad at, me, her ex-boyfrined, or me. I don't really care. It's just a story to tell.
In the yelling message, though, there was a little nugget of information I found ironic. She did something recently I asked her to do when we were having a little dispute about the divorce. She wouldn't do it when we were going through the divorce but she apparently did it shortly after. The results are going to be the same and I was left scratching my head.
I can't figure people out. They never stop amazing me. The good thing is instead of having to talk to the ex again, I can talk to someone at the State of Utah that I can most likely reason with and cooperate with to resolve the big somethings from the divorce.
Cool.
The post is titled "the winds of change" for a reason. I don't know what that reason is right now. What I do know is that there IS a reason. It's been a really odd day and something happened today that's really going to change my whole future. I can't explain it other than just a feeling I have. Something is just different. It happened about four in the afternoon.
But something is different.
However, to get myself out of it, I need to do it in writing, through my employer, and evidently have some kind of paperwork to back it up. I work for the Federal Government. They have rules.
I asked for some cooperation and the truth. What I got was the cooperation. It was wedged in to a whole bunch of name calling. But it was there and, sadly, what I expected. What I thought would be appropriate would be just a simple thank you for helping out. Instead, I got the internet version of being screamed at for helping out. I thought not having to pay a rather large hospital bill because my insurance was going to pick up the tab was a good thing.
My insurance company hasn't been paying my claims since May. I needed to provide them some information and I needed that information from the ex. I told her that and asked for it in March and/or April. I also told her they wouldn't pay claims until she gave it to me and I called them. I had to get her off my insurance policy because of the divorce so I took care of both things. Sometimes being stubborn gets to be counter-productive. But in getting yelled at, I got yelled at for that, too.
I was left wondering who she was mad at, me, her ex-boyfrined, or me. I don't really care. It's just a story to tell.
In the yelling message, though, there was a little nugget of information I found ironic. She did something recently I asked her to do when we were having a little dispute about the divorce. She wouldn't do it when we were going through the divorce but she apparently did it shortly after. The results are going to be the same and I was left scratching my head.
I can't figure people out. They never stop amazing me. The good thing is instead of having to talk to the ex again, I can talk to someone at the State of Utah that I can most likely reason with and cooperate with to resolve the big somethings from the divorce.
Cool.
The post is titled "the winds of change" for a reason. I don't know what that reason is right now. What I do know is that there IS a reason. It's been a really odd day and something happened today that's really going to change my whole future. I can't explain it other than just a feeling I have. Something is just different. It happened about four in the afternoon.
But something is different.
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